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Tutta Larsen together with her husband has three children: 11-year-old Luke, a 6-year old Martha and Ivan. Mother of many children in an interview with StarHit shared their experiences in raising children and talked about how to raise healthy and happy child.
TV presenter admitted that he absolutely rejects such an approach, when with very young children parents are not talking to, considering that they don’t understand. “Of course, with the baby we need to talk, his need to hold on the handles. It’s already scientifically proven that when a newborn is often picked up, then it develops better intelligence,” — said the tutta.
The presenter is confident that boys and girls should be raised differently, but not to forget that they are still small and defenseless children: “it seems to Me, with the children more difficult because they are more fragile and delicate. The boys are very vulnerable from an early age before they begin to pose challenges: don’t cry, hold on, hold on, don’t fight, and something else. But they do not cease to be gentle babies. Them very much high requirements on the one hand, and with another — to educate the boy, the motivation and the responsibility is much more complicated than in the girl.”
Mother of many children spoke about rigor in the education of children: “Austerity is a completely unnecessary factor in communicating with children. In our family we generally abandoned the concepts of “strictness and punishment.” We want to communicate. Self-indulgence does not happen by accident. The kids don’t behave badly just means that they are missing something. All they can do is what they are taught to adults. All reactions, manipulations, behavior is the reflection of our actions. Need to think about what you’re doing wrong.”
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“The word “cannot” we use very rarely. If you have a child something forbidden, it needs something to allow. A very wise psychologist once told me: if you close before the baby is one door you open another. You need to learn to negotiate, to find an approach and a compromise is much more difficult, but more effective,” she continues.
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