It turns out that the strolling couples healthy.
The modern system of higher education presupposes a great intellectual effort and self-education very often children do not cope with such volumes of information, so student absenteeism may be useful to reduce stress and restore psychological health.
This was reported by the psychologist Ekaterina Melnikova.
“Student absenteeism is useful in only one case, if the child stays at home to sleep, and just mentally relax. In other cases: a frat party or the performance by subject, such behavior threatens to subsequent problems with learning, increase the level of psycho-emotional stress and even nervous breakdowns,” – said the expert.
According to E. Melnikova, the older the child becomes, the more is his personality. For good performance really does not matter how the person is learning the material and doing homework: morning, evening, night, a week before the delivery or during the night. Most importantly, the teenager wanted to learn and understood the importance of higher education.
“The only thing that interferes with learning – is a constant race for knowledge and perfection. Exhausting yourself in intellectual and emotional terms, the students quickly fade, lose their desire to learn and develop. 35% of first year students after the first semester studying at the machine not wanting to develop,” – said the expert.
The psychologist also stressed that parents whose children truant couples (and the majority), it is necessary to treat the situation with understanding. The better question is, do you need to help the child than to create a scandal. Remember a student is almost an adult, he is aware of the responsibility for their future and understands the consequence of his absenteeism, he’s just also a real person and sometimes it needs a rest.
“Our higher education system is not perfect. Some pairs are more important than others, and some monographs more informative. Sometimes the time spent outside of steam, can be much more useful for intellectual and emotional development of the child”, – concluded E. Melnikov.
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