They live difficult.
Though we often come up against Roma in everyday life, we know about them not so much. This nation still live according to the laws established centuries ago, and their women, though, and look pretty relaxed, don’t have the camp virtually no rights.
Married at 16
To be a spinster in a Roma community is unlikely to succeed – the girls are married off at 16 and 17 years, with boys entering marriage in the 18th and 19th. Divorce, of course, impossible – a marriage should be for life. Those women who decide to divorce, “pollute” the community and cast a shadow not only on themselves but also on their daughters. And no new relations can not be and speeches.
Girl Gypsy who is getting married must be a virgin. Otherwise, the bride will be a disgrace – will declare it dirty, defiled the community. Deprived of virginity before marriage, Gypsy risks remain forever one – man-Gypsy never go against the laws of the camp and will not marry a girl who has given herself to another.
As for marriage with other nationalities, it is among the Roma are not welcome. Aliens called the Gorger, and the girls in extremely rare cases, agree to such a marriage. The fact that Gypsies appreciate their own culture and are trying to save it. For this marriages even between cousins and sisters.
Parents are the main
Of course, in many cultures, girls should follow the will of the parents, but the Gypsy families, they have a particularly high reputation. Daughter does what she will say. And getting married for the one show.
Sometimes, of course, that the girl involved in the choice of a husband, but marriage by agreement of the parents is very common. After a Gypsy woman marries, she should obey her husband just as was heard by parents.
By the way, unmarried Gypsy woman cannot leave the house without an escort – there should be parents, brothers, sisters or other relatives. But guys a lot more freedom – they themselves are out of the house and choose a bride.
In the community of Gypsy quieter water below the grass, but their outfits in public screaming the opposite. Actually, bright clothing helps them attract future husbands, because to approach and to speak first Gypsy has no right.
Especially keen on sequins and rhinestones American Gypsies – every day they dress up as for the holiday. And if the community planned a wedding or birthday, then from the glow of their outfits can be blind.
Even though we live in the XXI century, the Roma still prevalent notion of so-called contamination. This means that the lower part of the body married Mature women “unclean”. To touch her skirt or even shoes is to dirty yourself. Girls and unmarried girls is not the case.
Due to “contamination” women are forbidden to climb to the second floor, they can only live on the first floor. If a Gypsy house ground floor residential and the whole family lives on the second, the other Gypsies say the family “has orogenies”.
For this reason, the feast men and women are held separately. Separately come to the house and guests: male to male, female to female.
Beats – it means love
In Roma communities, an incredibly high percentage of domestic violence. In the UK even the study was conducted, according to which 61% of the residents there married Roma women admitted that they regularly fall under the hot hand of her husband. And women are forced to put up with it.
Member of one of the British show Gypsy Mellie said that once the husband locked her in the trailer, and when the woman got out, beat her. The family persuaded her to take her husband back, and she obeyed, explaining that such behavior is part of the Gypsy tradition, and they need to honor.
After the wedding, only skirt
Girls and unmarried women can wear pants or jeans, but married ladies are supposed to wear only long skirts.
In modern society, a Gypsy girl is so used to wear jeans, after the wedding wear skirts right over them.
Roma women must be Housewives and do not have the right to be lazy for part of the cooking and cleaning. In the European culture is considered to be a Gypsy Samarskii, but in their homes purity.
A woman should regularly be washed, and she’s not with anyone to share their crockery and Cutlery, even with her husband. All the dishes are washed several times under running water, in a separate bowl with boiling water and again under running water.
Washable women’s and men’s clothing also need separately. And also, you should wash the clothes above and below the belt – because of the “dirt” on the latter. Well, underwear – it also washed separately.
Amnesty during pregnancy
Pregnancy for Roma women is a great time. She is freed from household duties and cooking and cleaning is engaged spouse.
And pregnant women are forbidden any physical contact. They can’t sleep in the same bed with her husband and only washed with Holy water. However, many American Roma women, do not follow these rules, they have achieved some degree of independence.
If the Gypsies there is a misunderstanding, then disassembly are noisy and bright with fights and curses of sorts to the seventh generation. But it is their own business. To contact the police is to go against tradition.
Can get to the fact that the family will disown a relative who applied to law enforcement. Men understand this perfectly, but some modern girls still trying to be civil conflict.
Earrings – for women only
In movies we often show the dashing Gypsy with earring in the ear, but actually earrings in the community can carry only women. Roma women generally love jewelry and the bigger they are and the brighter the better.
As you know, to live among the Roma very difficult. And yet, if a family are born some girls, Gypsies don’t blame the fates, and go to a shelter and adopt the boy they believe is important, not as much blood as education.
That’s why in camp you can often see a fair-haired or red-haired children – hence the rumors that Gypsies steal children.
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