If applied, the result will not keep itself waiting long.
For convenience, we outlined the five basic stages of love with all their “bumps” and ready to give you instruction manual to love the trip you will travel with a man, was light and brought only positive emotions.
Step number 1: Go closer
1. Don’t sleep with a guy after the first date, if you wish to build with him a long-term relationship. Of course, there are cases when after this couple walking down the aisle, but this is the exception rather than the rule. Even if you continue Dating, sooner or later he’ll definitely think, whether all you are so quick to go to bed.
2. Don’t pretend that you’re perfectly versed in his interests and share them, if in fact it is not. When he finds out you actually hate football or “Game of thrones”, will feel cheated and will cease to trust you.
3. If a guy tells you that is not configured for any obligations and a serious relationship, it is better to mentally repeat this to himself or even write it down. Jokes jokes, but in the beginning of the novel is very easy to wishful thinking. The result? Inevitable disappointment in the future.
Step 2: Go to a new level
4. The guy is not considered to be your boyfriend till the moment when he does not call himself such. Man, it is important to claim the girl in the community, so if it is you, only as “Kate or Olga”, not adding to it a prefix designating status, do not rush to do this, and you.
5. If something in his behavior or lifestyle does not suit you, tell me about it now, not waiting until a little irritant point will not become an insurmountable problem.
6. Let him be the first in your pair, who confesses his love. Do not rush to recite a new boyfriend heartfelt poems about his feelings written yesterday, sleepless night.
Stage # 3: First conflict
7. Develop binocular vision – the ability to see not only him but my future in this relationship. Treat his point of view with respect, and then he will treat you.
8. Concealer claim compliments. “You’re the perfect employee. Me and your boss is lucky to get you, just please, give me a call, if again late for supper because of a meeting. I love our evening time together and just want to know when it will begin.”
9. Remember the following: the ratio of men to money, the policy may eventually change, as his views, convictions and beliefs. But his values, religious preferences and attitudes to monogamy, most likely, will not change.
Stage # 4: Learning to live together
10. All happy couples have one common habit: they have fun together. Competitive games (Billiards, poker) will fit perfectly – they release adrenaline, which stirs up the atmosphere in the bedroom.
11. Don’t let yourself to pluck eyebrows or do waxing in front of him. Believe me, there are plenty of other possibilities. to be natural, but desirable for her boyfriend.
12. He does not reveal all the cards. Guys love when a girl there is a light understatement, she is a mystery. It is not necessary to tell him about how pissed was your ex or that stomach upset and allergic – your eternal companions.
Tips that ALWAYS work
13. Be unpredictable. Guys like variety, but do not dare to speak about it to her friends. So, reading the paper over Sunday Breakfast, you can look him in the eyes and casually say: “I Always wanted to make love to you in the stairwell” and, as if nothing had happened, go back to the press.
14. Always thank him even for minor things (he washed your car or helped second cousin’s nephew to make a slingshot). Gratitude works with men miracles – they want to do everything for you more and more.
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15. Each of you probably sooner or later put into question my ability to be a faithful partner for life. Keep this information to yourself, but don’t take it personally if he suddenly appears.
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